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Midntsgirl · 11-02-2005, 09:08 PM

Ok, here I am again...with more news. After almost 4 years of running/hiding/evading/etc...the DA's office FINALLY found my youngest daughter's father. They served him with court papers in March and he lied to the judge about having a DNA test done. Well, in September the judge found out he lied to him and named him her father by default. He screwed up! Now he's got a court order to pay child support. Just wanted to share the news!

lealphachienne · 11-02-2005, 09:29 PM

Good to hear from you. Haven't seen your pretty face in a looonnnngggg time. Glad to hear things are turning around for you.

LizardQueen · 11-03-2005, 12:23 AM

Good for you! Better for your daughter! She deserves to be supported and you deserve the help. Congrats! Glad to see you back!

Baron Patrick · 11-03-2005, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Midntsgirl

Ok, here I am again...with more news. After almost 4 years of running/hiding/evading/etc...the DA's office FINALLY found my youngest daughter's father. They served him with court papers in March and he lied to the judge about having a DNA test done. Well, in September the judge found out he lied to him and named him her father by default. He screwed up! Now he's got a court order to pay child support. Just wanted to share the news!

I just LOVE it when a deadbeat spouse is found, served, and flamed!

I'm sorry, but you have to be a Loon to lie to a judge! It only pisses them off and makes things worse (as we can see).

Now, make him squeal like a pig!

I'm very happy for you, especially for your daughter!

Bypassingme619 · 11-03-2005, 09:04 AM

Brenda that is great. I hope that finally brings some peace of mind to you. Hopefully that will help so you don't have to work 7 days a week. That isn't fair. I hope the Judge makes him pay big.

Midntsgirl · 11-10-2005, 04:25 PM

Thanks for all the comments, but to tell you the truth...I doubt I'll ever see one red cent from him. And that's not even the part I care about! All I ever wanted was for my daughter to have her father in her life, but I doubt that will happen either. He lied to me probably from the first word that came out of his mouth..."I had a vesectamy (sp?)." "I'm single." "I really care about you." ETC... But it's between him and God now. It'll be on his concience until the day he dies. I've done all I can to help the DA's office find him and now all I have left to do is take care of my little angel...and that's all that matters! THAT'S THE FUN PART!!!

Thanks again for the well wishes! It means alot!

CiCi · 11-11-2005, 09:24 AM

Brenda, it sounds like it's definitely for the best that your daughter hasn't spent a lot of time with her biological father. Sometimes these things are a blessing!

I hope all works out for you!

Midntsgirl · 11-18-2005, 09:36 PM

She's never seen him at all. The last time I even spoke to him was in May of 2001 and I found out I was pregnant in June 2001. I tried and tried to get a hold of him, but eventually had to just leave a message on his voice mail. Needless to say, after that he disconnected his cell phone. He doesn't know what a GREAT kid he's missing out on. She's so beautiful and so smart...but it's his loss!!