I got my date today...so surreal...scared... - ThinnerTimes - Gastric Bypass Forum, Lap Band Forum, and Vertical Sleeve Gastrectomy Forum

awaitingme · 10-19-2009, 09:31 PM

Well, after fighting the good fight for three years, I received my surgery date today. Monday, October 26. One week from today. All the sudden, I am nervous, scared, kind of terrified. I have so many questions that weren't there before. I think part of me believed I would never win this battle, so it was always "some day", but now...it is MONDAY!

I bought WLS for Dummies. Good book. I recommend it. It has helped me with some of my questions. I still have a few and hoped I could get replies from you all out there.

1. I am looking for a good protein supplement. I like Chocolate. Anybody have a favorite?
2. Is it standard to get stockings in the hospital after surgery to prevent DVTs? Or should I buy them?
3. I take a medication in capsule form. It is kind of BIG and I am worried I won't be able to get it down. Should I switch to something else?
4. How do I get added to the October surgery list? I need support, but I don't know who to talk to.
5. I want to ask, but am not asking, if this will really work. I have this fear that I will not lose the weight. I am terrified that it will be for nothing. That somehow I am just not meant to be thin or healthy. I don't know why. Anybody else feel this way?

I look forward to hearing your responses and thank you for your support

Snow-Belle · 10-19-2009, 09:50 PM

Greetings Kim,

CONGRATULATIONS on your Surgery Date!

I think what you are feeling is the result of for three years of having channeled all your thoughts and energy into just getting the surgery, the having the surgery is now almost anti-climatic and you are really thinking about what all the surgery involves.

What you're feeling is normal.

Take a deep breath...relax...

The next week before your surgery will both DRAG and FLY by... use this time to focus all your nervous energy into cleaning your house and/or getting all those little things done now so you don't have to worry about or deal with them after the surgery.

Be aware that any protein powder you like now -you may not like after the surgery.
Your tastes will change...get a variety of samples... don't invest in the big tubs now because you may not be able to stand them after the surgery.

I didn't have to wear any stockings after I left the hospital. Unless you have specific issues with varicose veins or other problems it's unlikely you will need any sort of support or compression stockings after your surgery. If in doubt- contact your doctors office now.

Is your capsule something that can be opened up and emptied into a protein drink or jello? Can you get a smaller dose in tablet form that can be cut in half to make a smaller tablet? I was able to take small tablets the day after my surgery...check with your doctor NOW so you are prepared and don't have to worry about this after your surgery.

Unless you work hard to sabotage your surgery- it will work. I know, I know, you don't believe me because you've been on HUNDREDS of diets before and here you are now...
Be patient with yourself, get in your fluids and protein, and you WILL lose weight.

I am a slow/low loser...

I only lost 15 pounds the first month after my surgery, and then absolutely NOTHING the second month--I was convinced I wouldn't/couldn't lose weight-especially when others around me where losing 20 to 30 pounds a month. It was VERY discouraging and I was convinced I was doomed once again to NOT being able to lose weight...

I still have 25 pounds to reach my goal (but I'm post-menopausal and my metabolism is not the same as that of men or pre-menopausal women) but I did lose 130 pounds in a year.

You can ask me anything- anytime...

~Michele

Kimberley1968 · 10-20-2009, 05:11 PM

Congratulations!!

My two favorite choc. protein mixes are UNJURY brand and max protein from sei pharmaceuticals.

Good luck!

poet_kelly · 10-20-2009, 06:02 PM

Congratulations on your date!

I like Chike protein powder. I'm not sure I've heard anyone say they didn't like them, so you might want to try their chocolate. I haven't actually tried the chocolate 'cause I don't really like chocolate milk or ice cream so I figured I wouldn't care for it. But I like their other flavors. You can get samples at Chike Nutrition - Best Tasting Meal Replacement Shake. Guaranteed. Pour, Shake, Drink & Go!.

They did not give me stockings in the hospital, but they put these pressure things on my legs. They inflated and deflated and felt kinda weird but kinda good. Except they made my legs sweat. My doctor did not think I needed to wear stockings when I left the hospital. He just told me to get up and walk frequently.

If your capsule is kinda big, you might want to see if you can get the medication in something smaller or in a liquid. Or ask if you can open the capsule and dump the powder into a spoonful of applesause or something.

To get on the October surgery list, just post on the thread and ask Linda to add you.

I think everyone wants to know if the surgery is really gonna work. It will. I promise.

Kelly

DIGITRIX · 10-20-2009, 08:05 PM

We have the same surgery date

I am having some issues as well....though today they gave me news of a fun liquid diet and gave me a nasty pill...hopefully My surgery will stay on the same day

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Welcome Welcome Welcome. Glad to meet you...feel free to message me anytime!

lvl0rg4n · 10-21-2009, 09:41 AM

Hi there!

I just wanted to say that Champion Nutrition's chocolate from vitalady.com is the best chocolate I've tasted.

awaitingme · 10-22-2009, 08:43 AM

To all of you girls,

Thanks so much for all your replies! I can't say how much it means to know the support is out there. My husband is fairly clueless and alarmingly unconcerned. I don't think he gets how serious it is, or can be, and the changes that are about to be made. He is very low-key anyways. Needless to say, it is SO nice to have others to chat with about this

Appreciate all the info you girls provided.

Vetty · 10-22-2009, 08:49 AM

So you just had the surgey done! That is freaking awesome! I love that everyone on here has been in my place or is in my place. I think its great to have family's support but sometimes its hard to be empathetic when they have no idea what we really go through. Yes, they see our pain trials etc its just not the same!

Laureate · 10-22-2009, 08:53 AM

Kim, Monday (Oct. 26) is my date, too! Best of luck -- it's going to be our red-letter day!

tams66 · 10-25-2009, 10:21 AM

Hi Kim,

Hope this isn't too late, I saw your surgery is tomorrow. My favorite protein is Jay Robb. I liked it before and after my surgery. Chocolate is great, and so is the vanilla with a TBS or two of pumpkin.

Both GNC and Vitamin Shoppe have the individual packs so you can try before you buy...

Good Luck tomorrow,
TamS