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Old 10-16-2009, 01:59 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Wow! That just blows my mind!! Mine lasted about 15 mins. and we NEVER discussed why I wanted the surgery, if I was motivated, if I knew what I was doing, etc. NOTHING!! It was a total waste of time and money in my opinion.

Again, all I can say is WOW! Sorry you had just a jerk for a consult.
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Old 10-28-2009, 10:00 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I received a copy of the psychiatrist's report to the surgeon yesterday. Don't know how to describe my emotions after reading it. I think "hurt" is accurate, but so is "angry" and "disappointed" and "confused."
After meeting with me for 2 hours, she decided that while I may be a candidate for WLS physically, that I am suffering from Major Depression (not minor depression...but Major...with a capital M). She has determined that my medications are not adequate, that I am married to someone who is unsupportive and that I am taking the "easy way out."
Looking back on the consultation, I remember her telling me that 2 of her patients recently had WLS and neither of them asked her opinion before they did it. She was angry about that. I think she took the anger out on me. She had NOTHING positive to say about me, other than I quit smoking 4 weeks ago for the surgery.
I'm not going to let this woman determine my future...but am really stunned by her lack of professionalism. I thought psychiatrists were supposed to help people...she made me feel unimportant, defeated, and frankly...unworthy.
I don't think her report is a deal breaker, at least I hope not.
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Old 10-28-2009, 10:11 AM   #13 (permalink)
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This might not be something you want to hear, but a LOT of people are not mentally sound for this surgery yet they get it.

I see it all too often on here, too many questions that make me wonder what kind of psych evaluation people had, people with psychological problems, and plenty who were never mentally prepared for what happens after this surgery. While I think there is only so much a doctor can help you with and inform you of, there are too manly who suffer from mental diseases who just cannot handle the surgery mentally and probably should have never been mentally "passed" right away without some pre-op classes or sessions.
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