Okay, here it is from an old lady....
Sex begins at breakfast. Not the actual act, but the connection with your spouse.
And one more thing - I, too, have an emotionally disconnected husband in many ways. Interstingly (to me), I found that when I was cheerful and pleasant, and did what I enjoyed (when he declined my invitation to join me), I went anyway and had fun. My current square dancing activities come to mind.
Marriage is difficult, relationships are complex. Try to find that middle ground.
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Claire, AKA ClaireBear
4'9.25"
Lap RNY - 4/9/07. Pre-op, 236 lbs - Current: 104 lbs. - Goal: 126 lbs.
CENTURY CLUB: 11/26/07 Wooo Hoooooo!!!
WAY more than HALF of me, 132 lbs., GONE!!!!!
Size 3 in skinny jeans, Petite Small in all else!
T-T Cruise 2008 Memories and PHOTOS thread: http://www.thinnertimesforum.com/soc...-memories.html
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