AirForceWifeInUtah

and it went well.

I was practically unhinged about talking to hubby about me getting WLS. The conversation pretty much fell in our laps. We were flipping through channels on tv and came across Ruby and her show and began talking about it.

We started talkin about his medical issues with his wrist and the procedure the military is going to do, and my knee and the reason the doc won't operate and I segwayed into WLS from there.

He said he knew I had been thinking about it because he had seen and read the literature from my orientation meeting.

I just told him that I understand his feelings towards weight loss surgery, but this is something i've decided I need and all I want to know is that even if he doesn't agree with it, that I will have his support 100%. He said I always had his support.

trish29

Sounds like you've got a good hubby :-)

Glad it went well...

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10/20/08 - SURGERY
DOS - 250
Day 7 - 244
Day 16 - 236
Day 30 - 227
Day 47 - 218
Day 65 - 210
Day 90 - 203
Day 99 - 198 1/27/09


High/DOS/Current/Goal
266/250/160/?

Month 1: 23 lbs lost (227)
Month 2: 12 lbs lost (215)
Month 3: 12 lbs lost (203)
Month 4: 9 lbs lost (194)
Month 5: 7 lbs lost (187)
Month 6: 6 lbs lost (181)
Month 7: 5 lbs lost (176)
Month 8: 8 lbs lost (168)
Month 9: 2 lbs lost (166)
Month 10: 4 lbs lost (162)
Month 11: 2 lbs lost (160)

Jobu

I was really wondering why you had to have a birds and bees chat with your husband...


glad to hear he supported you tho, its important. I wouldn't have gone through with mine without my wife agreeing to it.

foxyfuzz

Congrats Girlie!! I am so excited for you. All the stress for nothing, isn't that how it always happends though?

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Cerissa

Never regret something done with affection; something born with a true heart will never be wasted

Sometimes you have to forget how you feel, and remember what you deserve.

313 / 298.5 / 169 / 150
Start/Day of surgery/Current/Goal

Surgery on 12/18/2008

Kymel

Glad to hear it went so well! I know it's a huge weight off your shoulders, not to mention an even bigger support system going in to replace it Lucky gal!

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Mel
RNY - Day of surgery weight: 268
5'-6"

Onederland: 10/12/08
Century Club: 10/26/08
No longer morbidly obese: 6/22/08
No longer obese: 1/4/09
No longer overweight: 11 to go
BMI start 50~25.3 now

Scale Whore #48
Gym Rat #137

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"Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending"-Carl Bard

poet_kelly

Glad the talk went well. Sounds like he is going to be a good source of support.

Kelly

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RNY 11/4/08

surgery/current/goal
270/147/130

suebry05

you already lost 30 pounds taking that weight off your shoulders!!


glad to hear it went well!!

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Surgery 12/09/08
TT Gym rat club member #141

jerseygrl684

Isnt it a huge sigh of relief now? Now you can go forward knowing you have his support. Woohoo!

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Age: 25/5ft 2 .Lap RNY- 11.26.07
248/227-highest & day of surgery
109(eek)-current


Let's cure her with sunshine and puppies!- HOUSE

hit my doctor goal 6/30/08/100lbs lost *5.23.08/ONEDERLAND 1.5.08

soon2bthin

Congrats to you. Feels like a load has been lifted I bet.

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Cassie




252/150/137

RNY July 30, 2007

AirForceWifeInUtah

anyone ever go through their old posts and read what you wrote then think to yourself "WTF was I thinking?"

I did that after my conversation with hubby. I laughed at myself. The anxiety and pain I felt at the moment was real, but now it seems so trivial because the convo went so well.

Thank you everyone for your kind words and support