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Originally Posted by soon2bthin
I agree we are all here for support. But I am not gonna pat you on the back when you post about needing help with attitude and are eating crap the first week. Sorry not gonna happen. I will wish you well in your journey because you are gonna need it.
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I, too, understand the need for support. However, I think that there's a big difference between support and enabling.
When someone wants support with a problem, they don't bristle at the answers and start up the flamethower. That person wanted validation for her issues, not genuine support.
And I'm not going to enable her by sugar-coating answers just to look good ... especially when I posted a genuine answer, *then* read that she had already crapped all over the other posters in the thread before me, plus rejected any advice over a couple of days old.
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Jenn 5'8.5"
Lap RNY 6/22/05
Pre-Op: 367/ Current: 238/ Lowest: 228/ Goal: 175
Pounds from Goal: 63
Trying so hard to get back on track, face that I can't do it alone, stop beating myself up for my failings... UPDATE: Well, after the 7 lb. drop last week, this week I didn't lose *anything*.
Didn't gain, but it's discouraging.
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