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ejones4334 · 06-30-2009, 01:52 PM

Kelly,

Wow I can't believe I just found this thread, well girl keep your chin up in the end you will end up on your feet stronger than you ever thought you could.

carotgirl · 07-01-2009, 04:08 PM

OK.

Kelly... I have one thing to say to you. Do something for YOU and do it now. Do NOT worry about what BF may or may not be doing or what sis is doing or whatever... Something for KELLY. Crash at BF's for now as it is a safer place than your own... and apply for SCHOOL. FAFSA. Online. Do it now. You need your tax info from this spring. You will qualify. Get enough grant/loan money to get thru the fall semester and take some classes... throw yourself into them. That way, if BF goes away, you have something to do for 5 days a week. Get a part-time gig selling shoes or phones or shit, I don't care. Make enough to pay your insurance, and live off the student loan money. It can be done. Easily so. In the process you will learn to be independant of the craziness, you will be bettering your life, and you will show BF and everyone else that you are courageous, smart, independant and motivated. Degree=better job, confidence=better behavior from the BF or a better BF, and all of this gets you out of the insanity which is WORSE for your health than anything.

Right, so if you need help with this... shoot me a PM.

jerseygrl684 · 07-03-2009, 11:38 AM

delete meeeeee

carotgirl · 07-03-2009, 01:46 PM

Honey...unless there is some loophole I am missing... you can still apply for loans and grants thru the federal government. I did school many moons ago (ok, NOT that many, but...) and am in still deferring/forebearing/repaying those. AND, I was able to get another set of loans TWICE, once for more undergrad work and once for grad school. TRY. Or send me your info and I'll do it for you, or with you on the phone if you need. I do this ALL THE TIME. (I teach high school). This is where tough love sets in.

Your family is for crap right now. They can't see past the nose on their face to see what they are doing to you. WALK AWAY. Forget the scene in the driveway, forget all of it. Put in more job apps, even if it is quikie mart or whatever...

All we can do is support you from afar. I'd love to say you can come here and live, but we both know that well, you don't know me from a hole in the ground. BUT, I feel for you. I see kids/people in similar situations daily... and it is my job to help them dig themselves out. Bypass surgery be damned, any person should not have to deal with this alone.

jerseygrl684 · 07-03-2009, 01:52 PM

delete meeeeee

Godsblessedme · 07-03-2009, 01:57 PM

OMG Kelly take your bags and leave! seriously leave that crazy mom and sister and aunt alone! just goto your BF's house. i think i would loose my mind too honey

carotgirl · 07-03-2009, 04:03 PM

PM on its way.

SweetSouthern · 07-03-2009, 07:08 PM

I'm so worried about you honey......... I wish I could make things better for you. You know I would.

jerseygrl684 · 07-04-2009, 05:13 PM

[delete meeeeee

Cee99Cee · 07-05-2009, 05:55 AM

Kell if you ever make it to VA look me up Have three empty rooms as my kids have moved to there own homes near a lot of colleges TNCC, ODU, HU,William and Mary all within 30 min drive so keep me in mind for an option