jerseygrl684

You guys are awesome. The amount of people PMing me and giving me support blows my mind. I feel VERY alone with my friends and all, but I am so glad that I am getting the support I need all around.

I am home, don't know for how long. I explained to my mom that I would need 30-45 days to get myself together. I found an awesome deal on a 3-bdrm share that if i could get some DEFINATE employment, I could afford and know I could afford long-term. So i've thrown my resume everywhere known to man over $10/hr (otherwise its freakin pointless), and I will get some clothes together tomorrow night/wed am.. and head to the boyfriends. His mom told him that she missed me around, his sister and I shockingly got along, and it was a little better last night.

Not better, but not worse is my status.

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Age: 25/5ft 2 .Lap RNY- 11.26.07
248/227-highest & day of surgery
109(eek)-current


Let's cure her with sunshine and puppies!- HOUSE

hit my doctor goal 6/30/08/100lbs lost *5.23.08/ONEDERLAND 1.5.08

kaitlinx

So after reading that, I'm kind of shocked. Mostly because I find myself in a similar situation. My sister is about 38 and she has never held a job. She's a recovering drug addict, she's been in jail numerous times, she lost custody of her children, she's rude and disrespectful, she steals from family members including myself and my mother. Yet after all the mistakes she has made, my mother still goes out of her way to help her.

So just like you, I get angry...pissed off. But I've realized that some mothers just can't stop trying... They always want the best for their kids, and that is why they'll do everything in their power to provide them with all that they can.

Once you save up enough money, get out. That's my best advice for you. You'll do better on your own, without having to deal with your sister's behavior. For the time being, just try to avoid her as much as you can.

Good luck

SweetSouthern

Wish you could come live with me lil punkin! I would LOVE you being here. Heck, I'm hoping WE have a house after this next month! LOL I just can't seem to work hard and fast enough nowadays. Shoot me a text when you feel like you need to vent. I'm always here babe. I'm happy you are spending time with Tommy. It's really good to hear you and his mom get along and his sister too. ((((BIG HUGS))))

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jerseygrl684

Ha, i'm so difficult to live with, let alone date. It will work itself out, you know it all will... Keep thinking positive. Tommys a pain in the ass too, no doubting that, but he means well. He's got that tough as nails attitude, perfect for the marines, just not for ur emotional girlfriend.

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Age: 25/5ft 2 .Lap RNY- 11.26.07
248/227-highest & day of surgery
109(eek)-current


Let's cure her with sunshine and puppies!- HOUSE

hit my doctor goal 6/30/08/100lbs lost *5.23.08/ONEDERLAND 1.5.08