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06-22-2009, 06:52 PM
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Location: Evansville, Indiana |
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[QUOTE=Kimberly76;448899]I've not been in this spot... but can see it in my head (thank god I have a darling bf) but I would be honest, strong, and confident. That will be sexier than any skin you have. In my little opinion. Most men are happy to see any woman naked, and if he's not happy to see you naked and you end up seeing him naked, point at his unit and laff..[/QUOTE]
HAHAHAA!!!!
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Surgery Date: 6/16/09
Highest Weight: 294
Day of Surgery Weight: 274
7/4/09: 254
7/14/09:249
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8/31/09: 224
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10/16/09 204
10/31/09 199
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06-22-2009, 07:35 PM
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[QUOTE=AngelEyez;452030]
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Originally Posted by Kimberly76
I've not been in this spot... but can see it in my head (thank god I have a darling bf) but I would be honest, strong, and confident. That will be sexier than any skin you have. In my little opinion. Most men are happy to see any woman naked, and if he's not happy to see you naked and you end up seeing him naked, point at his unit and laff..[/QUOTE]
HAHAHAA!!!!
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She's home! Welcome back sweetie. (Even tho I follow you on FB)
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06-23-2009, 12:35 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2008 |
Location: Indiana |
Surgeon: Dr Jones |
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Ahh weed hopper lights on / lights off :-P
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BMI starting 54 now 23
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06-23-2009, 09:14 AM
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Location: Buffalo NY |
Surgeon: Dr. Alan Posner |
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I'll just chim in with what happened with me. After my surgery and losing about 60lbs I became involved with someone. I was so worried about how he would feel about my stomach so I just left my shirt on..till he grabbed my hands and said he found me pulling the shirt down a major turn off and he felt I was more worried about hiding myself then enjoying myself. That was huge for me. He also pointed out how he has lost a lot of weight and his stomach is all icky too LMAO Made me feel so more relaxed and finally I allowed the lights to be left on. 
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06-23-2009, 05:25 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2006 |
Location: Gilbert, Arizona |
Surgeon: Dr John Debarros |
Start Weight: 289 |
Current Weight: 155 |
Goal Weight: 150 |
Surgery Date: 11/20/2006 |
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Loose Skin
Ok I am going to take another approach.
Girl you are getting you some lovin!!!!! Forget the skin. Work the skin!!! I have not had to worry about someone else as I am married but I have learned to find flattering panties and bras that look good on me. I do understand the feeling of hating the extra skin. So all I can say is WORK IT OWN IT AND GET YOURS!!! 
P.S.
Get some nice bath body lotion and the smell drives them crazy they forget to see. LOL.
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Surgery - November 20, 2006
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289/155/160 /150
start/now as of 9/22/2009/goal new goal
Height 5'7
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Size now womens 6/8 juniors 29 tops small/medium
134 pounds GONE forever!!!!!!!!!
Hit goal of 160 now 5 pounds to go for new goal of 150!
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06-23-2009, 05:47 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Kimberly76
I've not been in this spot... but can see it in my head (thank god I have a darling bf) but I would be honest, strong, and confident. That will be sexier than any skin you have. In my little opinion. Most men are happy to see any woman naked, and if he's not happy to see you naked and you end up seeing him naked, point at his unit and laff..
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yeah thats what I would do too!!!
But my honest thought is...why does he not know you had WLS? I am married but I believe that maybe this sleepover should be postponed until you both know each other better- I kind of feel that WLS is a big part of your life that you have kind of hidden... be honest and everything will fall into place...whats the rush on the sex?
and I see this post was from last week..so Im just wondering at this point how did it go?
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06-23-2009, 05:49 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2008 |
Location: Vermont |
Start Weight: 317 |
Current Weight: 181 |
Goal Weight: 140 |
Surgery Date: 01/29/2008 |
Age: 49 |
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So the weekend is long over, and I'm curious how it went. I sure hope it went well!
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06-23-2009, 07:47 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2008 |
Location: Houston, TX |
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Yes, update on what you decided.
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BONUS - Walking around the zoo and not getting tired - 02/08/09
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06-23-2009, 09:25 PM
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As a guy, (looks down and checks, does not laff) I have to agree, if it matters, he is an idiot. Hope you had a great pleasurable time. Did you guys make s'mores. What color pajamas did you wear? What, it wasn't that kind of sleepover?  
Be well kiddo
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06-23-2009, 10:22 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2007 |
Location: PQ, San Diego, CA |
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She posted this thread a couple of days ago but hasn't been back to it... must be having fun with her new guy!
New romance...told him about loose skin and...
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