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Old 08-22-2008, 05:32 PM   #1 (permalink)
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This poem has sustained me since I was 15 years old. Over the last 35 years, as I have gained experience and maturity, it has become more defined and different aspects emerge into focus depending on the area I have sought consolation for.
I hope it can be helpful to you.
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Desiderata
by Max Ehrman


Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
 Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others,
even to the dull and ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. 
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. 
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
 Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
 And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, 
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations, 
in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, 
it is still a beautiful world. 
Be cheerful. 
Strive to be happy.




Max Ehrmann © 1927, 1954 All Rights Reserved.
In some reference books, Desiderata is still sometimes thought to have been 'found' at Old St. Paul's Church in Baltimore and to date back to 1692. It was actually written by Max Ehrmann and copyrighted by him in 1927, the copyright was renewed in 1954 by Bertha K. Ehrmann.
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Thank you so much for posting that. It is beautiful and so true.
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This poem was posted in one of my high school English Lit classes and I've always loved it. I plan on printing this out and posting it in my home office. I think my 10-year old granddaughter and I should read it together and discuss the meaning of it.

Thanks Vim, for posting this!
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Thank you Kelly,

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I agree - suitable for all ages and a good building block with your granddaughter.

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Vim, when I moved out my mother gifted me with the Desiderata carved on a beautiful piece of wood. It has hung in every home I've had since then. I love it personally. Thanks for sharing the words with so many others.
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Nyn,
How precious! And so thoughtful from your mother. I gave a copy to my mother who kept it in her bedside drawer and referred to it very often. When she died last year, she had it rolled up with a velvet ribbon and returned it to me in the pile of special items she left for me. I love the way it sustains all generations!
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