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Old 08-14-2008, 01:44 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default So devestated - again!

For those of you that read my post several weeks ago about the arson attack on my house I have further news...

You wouldn't believe it but some rotten little scum has no completely smashed down the fence at the side of our house and stolen all our garden furniture, lawn move, tools, mountain bikes etc. Basically everything that we had left in the world, which wasn't much!

It is yet another low blow and I am absolutely devestated. As if I wasn't feeling bad enough after the arson. I have fought my way through and many people have commented on how strong I have been. Let me tell you I now don't feel it at all.

I've had enough, I just don't want to live in this country anymore and I feel trapped - I am stuck with a half burnt down house that is being trashed day by day that we're not living there and I never ever want to live there again once it's been rebuilt. I am scared. But I am going to have now option - the bottom has fallen out of the housing market and I owe £220000 on a house that even once rebuilt will probably be worht £210000.

How can I get out of this. I am at my wits end. Why do people have to be so awful?

Just shows how one wrong decision can have such a huge impact on your life.

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Old 08-14-2008, 02:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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That's completely cruel, evil, and terrible. I'm so very sorry. I wish I had more to offer you. Here's a BIG ::HUG:: and wishing you a way out of this situation.
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Old 08-14-2008, 03:02 PM   #3 (permalink)
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That is just INSANE! How do people get away with that crap. I am so sorry for you and my heart goes out to you...
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Old 08-14-2008, 03:23 PM   #4 (permalink)
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WOW that's just horrible. I'm sorry you have to go thru this yet again. Too bad you can't just take the insurance money and move somewhere else.
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Old 08-14-2008, 04:31 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Sheree,
Beyond incomprehensible.
I have sent you a PM.
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Sheree, I'm so sorry about the thefts - how awful, especially on top of everything else. I have no words of comfort that can do justice to what you're feeling now, but I offer my prayers and good thoughts to you and your husband. As hard as things are right now, I know you will get through this, too. May each day get better and better for you!
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Sheree, I'm so sorry dear. Words just can't speak enough volume of how my heart hurts for you. You are such a good person and it's a shame there are people on this earth that will do the things they do to someone like you. I wish I could say something to make you feel better. ((((BIG HUG))))
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I'm so sorry for you to have to go through this again.. I wish there were something I could say that would be helpful... my thoughts are with you and your hubby during this trying time..I simply can't imagine how someone could be so cruel.

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Old 08-14-2008, 05:29 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I am so sorry this has happened to you Sheree. I know you are feeling violated right now. I wish I had an answer for you.
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Oh no!!!!

What is going on here lately. It seems like there is one thing after another for our friends on the forum. I can't believe that this happened to you again! I cannot understand why people can be so evil. Unfortunately there is that group of people in every country.

Housing markets rise and fall, so by the time you rebuild the market could be up again. I am soooooo sorry for all you are going through.

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