I put my first husband out 16 times, it didn't work, maybe for a while each time, but I was the one who suffered, because every time I put him out, it gave him freedom to do whatever he wanted to do. I hope all works out well, but for me, it didn't, putting him out only made things worse. We want so much to believe that our love is stronger than any addiction, but that is not the case. It got to the point that throwing him out, or refusing to let him come home only did more harm to me and my kids. The only thing that sobered up my first husband was my marriage to John.
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Hugs,
Traci
Open RNY March 16, 2004
At goal
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