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Old 05-15-2008, 09:11 AM   #1 (permalink)
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OK everyone, my scale won't move. It has been over a month. I know everyone says it will but it hasn't. It seems stuck. I even changed the batteries thinking maybe that was it, but nooooooooooooo. I have a hard time finding time to exercise, it is even getting difficult to get on here lately. I am running around doing some much for everyone that I don't get to do much else. With my 5 kids and then the daycare kids it is really hard. I was trying to up my protein, but starting getting sick. I don't know if it was from the protein but it seemed to coinside with that. I am trying to take the supplement every two days. It is extremely hard because the smell of all the proteins makes me so naseaus that after that smell, I can barely choke it back. I take my vitamins, not daily but at least 3 times per week, except calcium. Because of my previous history with kidney stones, I am scared to death of calcium. All my stones were of calcium. I was told then to limit my calcium intake of things with added calcium. I was told that calcium citrate won't affect that, but in the back of my mind I am scared to death of even the word calcium. I have only had my 6 week follow up, but missed my 3 month. They called and said I must go in, so I go on the 23rd of May. From all my blood work from my latest kidney stone episode all looks ok, but then who knows. I am really starting to get down and depressed here. I feel like I have put myself and my family through all this for nothing. The weight is not coming off. I will be 5 months out on the 23rd also. I keep finding myself in the kitchen looking for something to just munch on this week, just mindless munching. I am not hungry, I am never really hungry. The mere thought of food is very unappealing, but I am still thinking about it all the time even though it all sounds gross. I know this is long, but I just needed to vent and get this out there and see maybe who else may be going through the same thing. I am scared because they say 6 months and then the loss is over, and I don't think this extra 138 lbs is coming off in 1 month. I feel like I am driving myself crazy thinking about this constantly. Who ever says this is the easy way out, I will punch their freaking lights out. This is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life.
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Old 05-15-2008, 02:37 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Woooooooooo, take a step back here girl - 62 lbs in 5 months? That's over 12lbs a month?!!! (sorry that deserves exclamation marks).

When have you ever lost 12lbs every month for 5 months in a row? Huh?

Yes, this is hard work - I too want to give anyone who says that is easy a good smack around the chops with a wet fish but unfortunately we can't.

So what do we do - we prove em all wrong. The doubters, the pessimists and the downright miserable old gits that tell us we've screwed up our bodies. We get off our ass and show em how it's done. We go to the gym every day or go for a walk or run every morning. We eat our protein without fail and we commit to the belief that carbs are the spawn of satan.

And following this we loose 80% of our excess weight and then comes the praise, the rewards, the feeling of freedom that we've never had before, the belief that we can and will do anything our heart desires.

This is what we do. You know it is. You know the rewards are there for the taking - you just have to decide how badly you want them. More than those chips, more than that chocolate bar? I'd say so.

You will succeed I have no doubt, how long it will take is completely down to you. At the risk of sounding corney - keep your eye on the prize and it shall be yours!

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Old 05-15-2008, 04:44 PM   #3 (permalink)
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this is a good a place as any other for me to confess as well

I haven't lost any weight in a week - well I keep gaining/losing the same pound for a week and I'm 3 weeks post op... that being said, what Shereeks says is true... I keep reminding myself that this 25 pound loss is the most I've lost - this is the lightest I've been in over a decade..

and still, it's a bummer to not see the scale go down.. what I am experiencing is nothing compared to your frustration but I did want to acknowledge the discouragement...

right now I am struggling with exercise as well.. and I think unfortunately the reality is that somehow we have to find the time to exercise, period. It's not an option. Just like getting 60 grams of protein in is not an option.. it just has to be done. I don't know about you but I struggle with getting enough water in as well... But none of these are "optional" - That is what I keep telling myself when I start thinking that I don't have the time or energy to do what needs to be done.. why go through the surgery and all that just to wash out on the other end? I know that not getting enough protein in shuts your "weight loss" decider down - starvation/preservation mode and all that..

one of the things I've found extremely helpful is MiladyB's smoothie - 30 grams of protein!!

7 oz fage yogurt
1 c skim milk
1 pkg sugarfree carnation instant breakfast drink

splenda and crystal lite can be added (she does, I don't, I like the sour taste of the yogurt since I'm on the BLAND DIET FROM HELL )

I'll tell you what I keep telling myself, I know what to do to change this. The only question is will I?
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Old 05-15-2008, 06:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Izzy, first of all get the idea of the honeymoon period only being 6 months out of your mind. That really is a bunch of crap. I've lost an additional 106 pounds since that 6 month mark so nope, it doesn't stop.

I know when you have a lot to lose it seems sometimes like you will never see the end. I remember some of those same feelings. I do agree with Jacki though. Sometimes you just do whatya gotta do. If you can't tolerate the protein supplements then put together your own concoctions with high protein. There are ways without using protein supplements. The one Jacki showed you is a great one and something I lived on for months every single morning. If you can do cottage cheese that is packed full of protein.

Here are a couple cottage cheese recipes that are wonderful!

Cottage Cheese Pancakes (soft-regular stage)

Half a medium onion, chopped
1 tablespoon butter
1 egg
1/2 cup cottage cheese
2 tablespoons flour
salt
pepper

Saute the onion in the butter until golden... allow to cool in pan. In a small bowl, beat egg slightly, blend in cottage cheese, flour, salt and pepper, and onion butter mixture. Heat nonstick skillet, spray with Pam, and place four 1/4 cup scoops of batter and spread into small pancakes. Cook until browned... flip and cook until lightly brown on other side.

Total recipe: 20 grams protein

Cheese Crepes (soft-regular stage)

1/4 cup of ricotta cheese (I used a little tiny bit more)
2 large eggs
2 tablespoons of splenda
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
1 1/2 teaspoons of cinnamon ( I used 1 teaspoon)
butter or margarine

total recipe: 20 grams protein

Linda's Cottage Cheese-Oatmeal Pancakes (soft-regular stage)

1 c. oatmeal, ground (measure BEFORE grinding in a food processor)
1/2 t. baking soda
1/8 t. salt
3-4 T. Splenda Granular
1/4 t. pumpkin pie spice (or combination of other sweet spices you like)

Stir together above ingredients in a mixing bowl. In a seperate bowl whisk together:

4 eggs
1 c. cottage cheese
1/3 c. milk
1 t. vanilla

Add to dry ingredients and let sit for a few minutes. Spray a small skillet with non-stick spray. Heat over medium. Pour 1/3 c. into hot pan and cook until cake is getting dry on the top (but lower heat if it gets too dark on bottom). Turn carefully and continue to cook for a few minutes. (These are difficult to flip if you don't let them cook enough on the first side.) Can cool and stack on a plate and wrap tightly with plastic wrap.


Total Recipe: 804 Cal; 72 g Protein; 29 g Tot Fat; 68 g Carb; 8 g Fiber; 12 g Sugar; 951 mg Sodium

You can make this with the Quaker Weight Control oatmeal or the Kashi Go-Lean oatmeal and it will give you even more protein. Personally I would lower the fat on this one too and use reduced fat ingredients where possible and egg substitute instead of the eggs.

Kate's Cottage Pie (pureed, soft-regular stage)

1 lb. FF Cottage Cheese
1/2 tsp Kosher salt
3 Tbs. FF Half & Half
1/2 C. Splenda
3 beaten eggs
1 tsp.grated lemon peel

Spray the baking dish with butter PAM and bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes. It is also good with a bit of cinnamon.

Not sure but this would be a pretty high protein count too.

Berry & Cream Cheese Protein Crepes

1/2 cup of ff cottage cheese to my magic bullet or other small blender cup

one egg white or one whole egg or liquid egg white to equal one egg (I use liquid egg white most often)

2 T flour,

1 t. vanilla,

a dash of salt

splenda per your taste - I use about 2 T

Pulse until smooth (thick batter consistency)
On a hot grill (works so much better than a pan in my experience) spray the nonstick griddle with butter Pam and pour the batter out in 4 even pancakes. I didn't do anything else at this point except wait for the batter to cook to firm and then flipped the cakes over to cook the rest of the way.

I pulled these off and added whipped fat free cream cheese and sugar free preserves and folded over.

Sprinkled with a smidgen of powdered sugar to add a bit of decadence to the plate. They were perfect and so easy. When I used the bullet to mix I had very nice pancakes - Absolutely NO STRESS whatsoever with them falling apart when using the small blender to mix them.

In this actual photo instead of the sf preserves, I used frozen mixed berries with spenda to taste and simmered on stove top til thicker cosistancy.

Approx Total Stats for Entire Recipe using frozen berries and liquid egg white
Calories 154
Fat 1
(healthy) Carbs 10
Protein 23

Mexican Cottage Cheese Quiche (soft-regular stage)

Pre-heat oven to 400°
Spray your casserole dish with either pam butter flavor or olive oil. Put dish into oven while its warming up, you want the dish hot when you add the mixture. Preheat least 10 mins while preparing the innards.

1 large onion chopped
˝ yellow bellpepper diced (remove seeds and any white pith)
3 Tbl butter
2 Teaspoons of ground cumin

4 eggs
1 ˝ Cups Cottage Cheese (Non Fat)
6 Tbl flour
˝ tiny can of green chilies
˝ tiny can of sliced olives
˝ tomato diced (remove seeds)
1 teaspoon ground cumin
Salt
Pepper

Couple tablespoons of green sauce ( I used a mild green taco sauce, but any verde is good).
1 Avocado
Lemon juice or lime juice (to prevent browning of avocado)
1 cup low fat shredded cheese

Sauté the onions, yellow bellpepper and 2 teaspoons of cumin in the butter… Allow to cool, so they don’t cook your eggs too soon. After sautéing them put them aside and let them cool either in the pan, or in a bowl, I used a bowl since the kitchen sink was so cold..

In a med bowl, lightly mix eggs. Then blend in cottage cheese, flour, chilies, olives, tomatoes (leave enough of the chilies, olives and tomatoes to add on top before baking) and cumin. Combine all together. I eyeballed the salt and pepper, but would say maybe Ľ teaspoon or so.

Take your dish outta the oven, add the mixture to it, top it with the shredded cheese, then top with tomatoes, olives, and drizzle the sauce on. Bake for 25 mins,, watch the cheese get nice and brown on top and around the edges. Let cool a few minutes.

Slice your avocado, sprinkle either juice on it. Place slices on top of finished product.

This is an absolute favorite of mine and it goes together so quickly and goes down so easy!

SUSAN MARIA'S VANILLA EGG CUSTARD

WLS 1/2 cup portion: Calories 110, fat 4.5 gr, carbs 7.5 gr, protein 9gr.

Makes six 1/2 cup servings

4 eggs
1 cup skim milk
1 can evaporated low-fat milk
1/2 cup Splenda Granular
2 teaspoons vanilla
Pinch of salt
Freshly grated nutmeg

Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Place 6 custard cups or ramekins in a large roasting pan and set aside. Whisk together the eggs, milk, evaporated milk, Splenda, vanilla, and salt. Pour through a fine mesh sieve into a large measuring cup. Divide evenly among the custard cups and grate a generous amount of nutmeg over each one. Pour enough hot water in the roasting pan to come about halfway up the sides of the custard cups. Bake 25 to 35 minutes, until the custard are just set in the center. Carefully remove the custards from the water bath, and transfer to a wire rack to cool. Serve chilled.



You can do this Izy!! Sometimes you need to get really creative in order to get your protein in especially at your stage. Sheesh...I remember that time SO well! The last thing I really wanted to do was eat but in a lot of ways I forced myself too. I looked at it as a job....but I too had enough of the protein supplements so I did many of the recipes above and gradually I found that my pouch actually began to like the taste of food again.
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Izzy,

You ARE doing this! You've lost 62 lbs! When was the last time you lost that amount of weight and were keeping it off? You do not have to be perfect...just make better choices in general.

And exercising really is a key component of weight loss AND a healthier heart. Not sure how old the day care kids are...but put on a music video or exercise video and dance along with the kids, walk to the park with them, heck walk around the back yard while they play. EVERYTHING counts in the long run.

Keep up the chin and know that you are doing what you are able to do at this point. When you get the mindless munchies make sure that you either have healthier food options and/or put the trigger foods in containers that are impossible to get into easily.

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Thank you everyone, I really appreciate your support. I do try to make healthier food choices. I mostly munch on oranges and pineapple, occasional cheese filled crackers. Before surgery it would have been 20 mini chocolate bars and 2 pepsi's two or three times a day. So I know I am doing better there. I just need to control grazing, eating while cooking, and just munching on those things when I am not even hungry.
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