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Cinerbelle · 03-16-2008, 01:44 PM

UGH!! Boys do suck... I was 23 when I met my current hubby (I was married at 19 to a REAL gem). I promise, your prince is out there... I know you have heard that before, but he really is!!!!!!

porshh951 · 03-16-2008, 10:06 PM

Not every guy is a idiot unfortunately in this area most are. My advice would be to take a break and concentrate on yourself. Good things will happen to you when you least expect it.

Nyn · 03-16-2008, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by sdgrrl

I happen to have a 28 yo son who was raised by lesbians who have taught him how special women are and how much respect we are entitled to. He would like to find 'that special woman' with whom to share his life. He is a stellar example of real manhood. He is a chef, has a great sense of humor and is as smart as his mama. With a good woman by his side, he is fit to stand beside Omaha Jim and his son. (And I have utmost respect and affection for OJ and totally think SWMBO has a real gem, an utter prince of a man.)

I'd be happy to set you up...he's actually taking a mini vacay with his sister at the end of the month to New York City....maybe you could meet up for coffee or a meal....

...not trying to be an interfering mom, I just see two issues getting solved at the same time....

Donna, will your boy go a few (4) years older? LOL.

Sorry you're having boy trouble jerseygirl. Been there. And I have to say, with several years hindsight, most of them were just NOT worth the tears shed over them. Hopefully, you will be able to resolve things with this dumb boy and find a SMART MAN.

katzz87 · 03-16-2008, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Cinerbelle

UGH!! Boys do suck... I was 23 when I met my current hubby (I was married at 19 to a REAL gem). I promise, your prince is out there... I know you have heard that before, but he really is!!!!!!

I was 16 when I met my now hubby...got married at 24 yrs old...and I'm one of the lucky few...still happily married! And believe me I KNOW how blessed I am!!

So know that there is someone out there for you, and they'll show up when you least expect it!

bigguy_132 · 03-22-2008, 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by rivi23

Oh girl...boys are stupid! Especially when they are in their twenties. I met my husband when I was 26 and he was 31..go for the older men! They understand women (just a little bit more!) than your average 23 year old boy. It took me and DH 5 years (yes I said 5) and two breakups (bad breakups) before I got that ring. He got scared A LOT! But now, wow I could not ask for more!

Hey now! I happen to think I am very mature, and intelligent for only almost being 21! I resent that comment! But I agree in the sense that men at that age only have one thing on their mind. Sad but true.

rivi23 · 03-22-2008, 05:56 AM

Sorry Jeremy, did not mean to offend, but that was what I found about boys that age. I AM SURE SOME DO EXISIST, I just never met them. Maturity wise though most young twenty something men are not thinking marriage, commitment, and relationships.

But I am a big one on getting married later in life due to neither person being mature enough. You are a different person when you are 25 than when you are 20.

Sorry to offend, but really, I am 32 years old and I was just speaking from experience.

kellyMASS · 03-22-2008, 09:31 AM

If he isnt knock down drag out in love with you then move on girl! You will find the one you have pleanty of time.Good job not turning to the ice cream btw...

jerseygrl684 · 03-22-2008, 09:32 AM

everythings okay.. actually more than okay

... thats why i have been a lil distant from the forum this week.. been busyyyy.

He came around and really is doin well.. and things are going okay.. don't know how to take that next step to make it all official and stuff.. buttttt.. eh.. ill figure it out i guess...

bigguy_132 · 03-22-2008, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by rivi23

Sorry Jeremy, did not mean to offend, but that was what I found about boys that age. I AM SURE SOME DO EXISIST, I just never met them. Maturity wise though most young twenty something men are not thinking marriage, commitment, and relationships.

But I am a big one on getting married later in life due to neither person being mature enough. You are a different person when you are 25 than when you are 20.

Sorry to offend, but really, I am 32 years old and I was just speaking from experience.

Nah it's ok really. I was just giving everyone a hard time. I can understand being a man myself I see how men treat women and I really am disgusted by it. So I can understand where you are coming from rivi. Personally, though I am willing to settle down when I find the right person and I am looking for a relationship as long as it is the right person.

rivi23 · 03-22-2008, 05:09 PM

You have a great attitude Jeremy, I am sure that right woman will come around!