Stacie:
I haven't read the book, but I totally agree with the concept. I spent half of my adult life trying to convince the absolute worst men to love me.

When I met a man who was "into me," I would reject him because I couldn't tolerate the kindness, love and affection. I know it sounds crazy, but it was true.
When I met my wonderful husband, he was "totally into me" and, of course, I tried to sabotage it. It took my brother and my daughter kickin' my butt to stick with it...and it finally "clicked."

After TWO YEARS, I finally became comfortable with the fact that it's okay to have a man love me unconditionally, to be "into me," and be committed for the long haul.
For those of us who have a history of abuse in relationships, accepting love is a very difficult lesson to learn. But it's well worth the work.
Congratulations on finding a man who's "into you."

I wish you only the best!