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Originally Posted by agonzalesjoy
Thank you for answering back. I am scared too. And he says I haven't tried everything else that I can, but I have tried so many diets and I usually gain all the weight back within months. I want something that will be permanent. Also I am getting the surgery done for free, and I am afraid if I back out, and I stay heavy, that I will regret not having it, and may not get another opportunity in the future. Also I am fairly healthy right now, and I am afraid if I wait, then I will get diabetes or something as I get older and then I may not get an opportunity then for the surgery. I don't want him to talk me out of this. I am going to just keep pressing on I guess, and he will just have to deal with it.
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It is normal to be scared after all it is major surgery. Yes there are so many horror stories out there but let me give you one good report. I am so glad I did this and I would have done it when I was younger if I only knew. it is not going to easy especially with out your husbands support. They tend to be threatend as my husband went through that phase. But I knew that i knew that i knew it was my hearts desire to do this so until you know this in your heart do't do it! Good Luck!
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