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Old 09-18-2006, 11:46 AM   #21 (permalink)
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WB Rain
I just got back into town also. I was in Arizona for a week, playing chaperon for 6 of the our residents. (Sounds like your trip was much more fun lol). My trip was tough food-wise as we were eating out a lot and it's still kinda early for me to be out in restaurants (well besides Wendy's Chili lol) but I lost 4 pounds over the week so I guess I did something right.
Congrats on all the wow moments while you were gone and let me know when you want to go out dancing again...I had a lot of fun!
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Old 09-18-2006, 12:54 PM   #22 (permalink)
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While I have a feeling you had plenty of men hitting on you pre-surgery, I also have had the "over-friendly dude" experience! Men who know me and stuff!

You have such a magnetic, beautiful personality and soul, I think people are drawn to you, period. But now you have achieved Hottiness as these men fantasize, so they can't help but give it a try and see how far they can get. One of my personal favorites is, "I'm sorry, but I make it a practice never to date outside my gender." Feel free to use it... I think of Jenny McCarthy--she flirts like crazy and has played for both teams. She's just so OTT no one can take her seriously, but EveryBod-ee fantasizes about her and no one truly expects her to go home with them. It's a hard concept for me to wrap my brain around, since I know one of the reasons why I kept myself big was to avoid male attention--if I had a better concept of things I wouldn't have had to do that...

The rules are always changing
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Old 09-18-2006, 01:38 PM   #23 (permalink)
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o.k. here are a few pics. Out of order..sorry.

The first one we are in Boston and I am with my cousins, the second one is a banquet dinner at work (not with my cousins) and the third one is in Boston.

You look so great Rain! You sexy thang! I am glad you had a good trip
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Old 09-19-2006, 06:32 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Thanks for all the advice.

I really need to hear that I am normal for being so addicted to male attention, oh by the way, Donna I also get attention from women! Then what do I say??? I never date outside my gender wouldn't work then, not to mention I only date my husband!!

So, you see a family resemblance with my cousin? Thats funny, cause I look like my mom and the cousin is from my dads side. I guess I have more in me than I thought!

Thanks for the compliments guys, I love to hear them. I really neeed to get back on track with my eating. I gained 4 pounds on vacation!!

Darcie, we will definately go out dancing again!!

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Old 09-19-2006, 10:07 AM   #25 (permalink)
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My voice of reason (Michelle) says when a woman hits on you, you should say "thank you."

Okay, then she says that you should add, "My husband thinks I look great, too."

I can't say what I thought of....
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Rain you are so hot! I am not married but I say revel in the men attention- as long as you dont act on it...it's ok. I think.
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Old 09-19-2006, 05:51 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Donna, Enquiring minds gotta know, p.m. me if you must!

Ryn, thanks, I try my best to stay focused, it is just so much darn fun!!!
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