i am a new post op but i would like to comment.
my boyfriend has been doing all the cooking for himself since i had the surgery when he is at my place. lately thats been everyday for 1-2 meals. he says when hes at home with his parents he watches his portion control also and at work. he also has been doing a lot of house work for me like vaccuuming and dishes that he wasnt doing before because well its my place so thats increased activity..
not to mention he is the one taking my 75lb rottie/pit bull mix on several walks a day.
so far he has lost about 6 lbs

so im really proud of him.
before my surgery we would eat out 3-4 times a week. and im talking appitizer, entry, sometimes desert so we were constantly eating junk. im happy we are both eating for the better.
besides he really only needs to loose about 25 lbs, 6 hes already lost. hes 6'4 so hes not overweight as much as i am because im 5'4.

im still proud of him.