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Originally Posted by Dimples649
I am married to a man who very recently had gastric bypass surgery. While he is limited to broth, sugar-free jello, and water, he acts like this is what the rest of are supposed to be eating as well. His attitude changes if I fix something for me and our kids (19 yoa and 12 yoa). Is this normal and how long does this last?? He is making me feel guilty because I am eating regular food and he isn't. This was his decision to make and I support him, but the rest of the family didn't have the surgery. How can I deal?? Do the kids and I eat in hiding?? Anyone out there that has the answers, please help. Otherwise, this is going to be a very long adjustment period.
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Hey there.....you don't say how recent, but from what he can eat it sounds like only a few days or weeks. I too would say to just go about your business. I would maybe make an attempt not to cook his favorite meal or maybe cut down on the snacks lying around.........but you and your kids deserve to continue normal eating. You are right that HE chose the surgery. Maybe right now he is feeling depressed or frustrated. I would try to get him to talk about his struggles........maybe even get to counseling or overeaters anonymous or something. When all is said and done, he still has to face food and decide what his relationship with it and what his choices will be. I hope things smooth out for everyone. Keep us posted.
