bridgetgirl

welcome to our friendly group of losers... the advice you have recieved so far is right on. However, I have one little comment that I hope doest offend you. What I see in your post is that you are just about one month out and you are worrying about wanting to eat more, hold more, have soda, etc.... why are you wanting to go back to your old ways that got you MO in the first place? I think it may be in your best interest to think about those issues.. perhaps see a therapist or something, it appears that you are still dealing with your food issues. Mourning is totally normal, food for many years has been our best friend... and now it's gone. Think about these things. You have been given a tool, a new lease on life, forget about diet pills they didnt work for you prior to your surgery and they certainly arent going to work for you now. Remember sugar pea to live one day at a time, as a MO person we are use to instant gratification.... know that one day before you know it you will lose 100 pounds and more... you will have control of what you put into your mouth and when... all you need is time, and support. Please stick with us and let us know who you are doing, what your frustrations are, etc. I am glad you are here and have decided to join us....

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J.Bridget Fisher aka koi-pea
2/9/04 lap 5'11"
298/170-trying to lose another 10

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