I'm writing them
and giving them to a close family friend with the instructions that she's only to give them to my kids if necessary. I didn't want to just leave them somewhere in the house and have them discovered at the wrong time - or not at all!
I also had a talk with my husband, but I'm sure we'll have more, about the fact that I totally trust him to make decisions for me based on the facts and his knowledge of me. You can't cover every single possibility.
It feels morbid to me too, (but I'm Italian Roman Catholic, so no real suprise) but it would be worse for them not to have something.
Chances are, my friend will hand them back to me a week after my surgery and I can tuck them away somewhere.
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