I'm so glad to hear you guys say that! Now I don't feel like I'm weird to be having those thoughts!
I actually have a will, (my husband insisted we get one before we went on vacation to Mexico a year ago--I guess he thought we'd get lost in the ruins) so I don't have to worry about who gets what..that type of thing. I just want them to know my feelings...but don't want to scare them by having a "if something goes wrong" conversation face to face before surgery.
Thanks for sharing....makes me feel better!
