12-19-2005, 10:10 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2005 |
Location: Imperial Valley, CA |
Surgeon: Dr. Callery |
Age: 31 |
Posts: 1,158 |
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Originally Posted by larryduran2000
Wow, what a difference 70 lbs makes. I am currently at 225 and I have been lifting like crazy. Problem is I am really starting to get hit on. This feels good yet at the same time uncomfortable because I am married. I am not used to receiving this kind of attention, but its hard not to be tempted? God that is so bad, has anyone gone through this?  |
Larry, have you talked to your wife about this? OR does she know about the attention you've been receiving lately? Even though I am pre-op, this was one of the issues we talked about at my psych. evaluation. The therapist said that it was important to talk to your spouse about this and to have communication. Maybe if you spoke to your wife about it you wouldn't feel so tempted? These women didn't know you before 70lbs, doesn't it make you a tad upset to know how superficial these woman really are, unlike your wife who loved you before the -70lbs. Just my thought on it.  |
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