Originally Posted by ValenP

Jonirae I'm going through the same thing about guys and some of my friends, it's so good that you brought up the issue.
even though I'm just 3 months out things with some of my guy friends are getting really strange, I'm getting really overwhelmed and embarrassed with some of their comments or when all of the sudden they have become way more touchy feely with me. I'm not used to these kinds of things, and it kinda makes me mad that they didn't think that way when I was heavier, it's like they just want me for my body. There's a lot of stuff going on in my head regarding relationships, I don't have, and never had one so sometimes I just don't know what to do I feel so weird about them right now because pre op my mind just knew that I was never gonna get a boyfriend because of my weight, but now that eveything's changing what??