Lisa I just want to give you a big hug. I know exactly what you are going through. I have a friend who I know in the back of her mind she feels the same. She as well is dealing with weight issues and hasn't in no way shown any type of support of encouragment. But I am honestly OK with that. I rather seperate the real from the fake suring my great change in life. Last thing I need is a "hater" on my team. Have you told your girlfriend how you feel about her reaction toward your WLS? I know it is easier said then done but communication is very key in order to understand. I am sure there is a lot of jealousy there with your friend but if her jealousy is so great that she can't encourage and celebrate your progress then maybe you should re-evalute your friendship. I hope it all works out and maybe you two can come to some sort of agreement to support eachother, workout plan meals together, etc.
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