What I hear from him, as you tell it doesnt sound insulting. We see MO peeps all the time and wish we could have the courage to emabrace them and share our WLS journey with them. I wouldnt be insulted if I heard it. perhpas I would have responded, "What makes you think she hasnt already and has lost 100 pounds?" Theres food for thought. 
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J.Bridget Fisher aka koi-pea
2/9/04 lap 5'11"
298/170-trying to lose another 10
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