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Originally Posted by Claire-in-Texas
It was the same thing 2.5 years ago. Therefore, I just didn't say much. And when I heard the rumors and innuendo and downright falsehoods I changed the subject. I wasn't going to get into a pissing contest with people who are and were ill-informed. Don't lower yourself, and don't waste your time and energy on it. It is human nature, and not the best, at that.
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When I went in to tell her that the surgery was scheduled and I would be taking some vacation time I told her that I only wanted her and my supervisor to know for now and that anyone else it is up to me when and if they find out- she said alright of course but she asked why out of curiosity- I told her because some people have negative feeling about the choice and I don't want to deal with any negativity until post op and on my own clock- she was like...really? You think some people are against it? I was like well at least it sounds like SHE isnt against it but it seems like common sense to me that some people would be against it, so I was surprised that she wouldn't see that. Especially, my office where I am surrounded by people who don't have this problem! By people who are constantly looking at people up and down and judging them behind their backs- I see it all the time. I am kind of ranting now but I just gotta bring this chick up...she is a supervisor also but not mine thank god...and she has some love handles for sure- she could stand to lose 15 pounds...she is constantly trying to tell people how she really doesn't eat much, no toxins go in this body, blah blah blah. But then 2 minutes later she is eating the hell outta some doritos or whatever. It is weird because everyone is like doesn't she realize how quickly she contradicts her self?! I mean damn could'nt she at least wait til she gets home to eat that crap so she can atleast appear to live up to her claims?!! I mean so many skinny people falsly beleive that us over weight people do exactly that and we are closet eaters and thats why we are fat! She is actually proof of the fact that, no...actually that is not always the case and in fact a lot of us have to eat healthy most of the time just to maintain a weight and if we want to actually lose weight we have to eat much much much less of that healthy food, excercise our *sses off and when they see us eating healthy at work or whatever it is not just a front that is us doing the same damn crap we do when we get home too! Bottom line it just aint fair and that is what has to be understood and accepted and adjusted too. I am in love with walking proof. His name is Allen- my love of 14 years...but that man can eat whatever he wants- he does not gain weight- okay let me be fair...he eats a large meal and his tummy will stick out about an inch and then he takes a shit and it goes away! LOL! No joke! He makes me sick! I swear our future children better have his metabolism dammit! Talk to you all later -hihi
