Hi all,
If you want to try the non-surgical route first, there are products for the upper eyelids that can help reduce or remove the "droop".
I have a couple friends that have tried the Eye Magic Eyelid Lift and say its very effective. There's another upper eyelid product called Upper Eyelid Lifter that seems to be a cream (from my experience, the creams never work!).
Here are the links for you:
Eye Magic Eyelid Lift
Upper Eyelid Lifter
Might be worth a try before spending all that money on surgery!
Good luck and I'll be talking to you soon!