This may be coming a little late to the game...
But here in Northern California, there are a ton of "adventure groups" for singles, where once a week or however often, they plan something fun. No pressure on "dating" or hooking up- just everyone trying new things together and making friends with likeminded folks. Might be rockclimbing one week, surfing another, hiking trails.... kayaking, etc. So it's active, you get to meet all diff people and maybe even just make some good "Girl friends", since there is no pressure to date on these events.
If I were single- I think thats what I would want to be doing. Learning and experiencing new things, (NOT alone), meeting new people in a fairly laid back, no pressure situation and making friends. You should look into it and allow yourself to take the pressure off. Try and really tap into and enjoy being "alone"/single and make it yours. You just might surprise yourself.
