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Kimberly76 · 07-03-2009, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by styxchic76

So I have a friend who weighs about 165-170 tell me that she's jealous that I'm having this surgery. She then proceeds to tell me that she's going to gain 30 pds so he can get it done. WTF?!? Her wedding is in October and she is trippin' cuz she can't get into her dress yet. I told her that I'd kick her a$$ if she did try that. Thing is, she crosses state lines to get prescription drugs for weight and then works out-and doesn't eat. I don't get it. Has anyone else dealt with friends like this? I'm really afraid that after I have the surgery that our relationship will have to go away and that saddens me cuz she's cool as hell. Any thoughts/suggestions on how to deal with her?

I'm not sure how to deal with her.. but I can say that women friends suck. I too had a gf(call her Friend A) that was a dear friend of mine. Friends since High School. I've not seen her since before Christmas because she's jealous of me. When I told her how much I lost and what size I was last we talked, she said she was smaller. I'm thinking good for you! I don't care what you look like, I love you no matter what, right? Well we have a common friend (friend B) and I talked to her and asked about our friend A, cus well it felt like she fell off the planet. Come to find out when I talked to friend B about friend A, about our friend's A weight, it was all a lie, and she's to embarassed to fess up. Sad, huh?

So, I've done said to mahself, iffin my friend A wants to be appart of my life, in time she will contact me.

I would beat your friend silly and say I love you no matter what size you are, get over it! And be healthy, if you don't have your health you have NOTHING!

Some people are so very stupid. I wish you the best with this situation.. All womenz situations suck.