Any advice I could give would be stale since I've been with the same wonderful woman for 12 years now, but we did meet online. It was probably a more innocent time for meeting online - back when it was rare and people gasped when you told them.
We did not meet on a dating site (if they even existed yet) - we meet on a local chat channel (IRC for those who remember). We talked like instant friends and met up the next day. There wasn't that dating pressure and that wasn't even the point.
I guess what I'm getting it is, it seems like you are putting too much pressure on yourself to find Mr Right and it is taking the fun out of the process. I'm way too far out of the scene to recommend how you might change up your thinking though.
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Lap RNY -03/23/09
2 week pre-op starting weight -371
Day of surgery weight -350
Current weight - 241
Goal weight - 200
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