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Old 04-19-2009, 08:12 AM   #9 (permalink)
Mary Jane
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Default Jerseygrl is right

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Originally Posted by zoe22jeter View Post
I have a fear....that I will lose weigth and get healthy but be hideous. I am only 24 and still VERY interested in men and that subject. I want to feel attractive and sexy with my clothes off and know I will never be able to afford my own surgeries(medicaid is payign for GB). I am already in MAJOR debt from college loans, and with this economy I haven't been able to find a job - Anthropology here btw). I am worried about losing th eweight but gaining the massive amounts of skin. Anyone knwo about medicaid covering plastic repaoirs after GB surgery?
I agree with Jersey girl you are still young. work out very hard and everything should fall into place. If a man loves you he will love for who you are. When I met my husband I was not overweight but I was not skinny he still married me we had 2 children I gained weight and he still loved. I had wls and he didn't want me to have the surgery I am down to 180 and still want to loose more weight but he wants me to stay at this weight. So if a guy loves u he will love u for u. Do things in life that will make you happy not things for other people.
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