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Originally Posted by lillylaroo
Hi Sparkles!
As for venting.....There is a gal in the office complex who I chat with regularly. She is a very sweet lady but she is really giving it to me about the surgery. i opened my big mouth last month at lunch with her and ever since then she is always telling me "all you need to do is not eat breakfast, have salads for lunch and eat very small for dinner". Don't have the surgery, it's so bad for you". If I miss a day she is running out the door saying she was so scared I had it. Give me a break! If I could lose the weight on my own I wouldn't elect to go under the knife..........Oh, by the way, she's like a size 4!
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You need to tell people like this "Although I value your opinion and I have heard it. Make no misstake, My decision has been made!! You can either be a freind, wish me the best and support me, or get the heck out of my way" tell her you only want from this point...to hear positive things about your decision or to just hush.
I make this quite plan to everyone who wants to add their unsolicited two cents. Be polite but firm and most of all be strong!
BY the way, I bought my magic bullet today from The mart. Don't no why I thought it was 20 bucks. that sucker was 69.00
OH well I'm sure I will get plenty of use out of it
