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Old 02-16-2009, 09:07 PM   #46 (permalink)
Delane
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Florida
WLS Type: Gastric Bypass
Surgeon: Dr. Jawad
Start Weight: 270
Current Weight: 168
Goal Weight: 140
Surgery Date: 02/10/2009
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Originally Posted by nextbigloser View Post
Take things one step at a time. Worrying about what may be will make you lose your mind. Just focus on the now. There are plenty of people out there who will love you for who you are and not what is under your clothes.

This is so true, because even though I am only one week out from my surgery, I know that there are men out there that will love you for who you really are, because I have been blessed with a most amazing man. We have been together for 20 years, but I can say with all honesty that he has loved me skinny, fat and he showes me everyday that if for some reason loose skin creeps up on me that it me he loves, not me being skinny, fat of even having some loose skin. So take it from me they are out there. And when true love hits thats when its love about you not about what may not be perfect.
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