A good friend of my ex's visited us several months ago, and he seemed on the outside like a great, considerate and kind person. Little did I know that weeks later, he would attempt suicide. My ex was fortunate enough to get to him before anything happened, but noticed he had a belt hanging from the garage ceiling, so he had intentions of following through. What I did is once he was in the hospital, I called and told him what a great person I thought he was and that he had really made an impression on my family. I told him I loved him and prayed for him. Really, that's all you can do is offer your support, which you seem to be doing. After that, leave it in the hands of a Higher Power, if you believe in one, which I do.
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