Keyra

My husband will have been deployed for 15months bless his heart, but we are having issues. He will be home in 20ish days

Im allergic to Birthcontrol, and hate the idea of IUD, iv heard nothing but horrible things, and they dont offer the cervical cap here in germany. So im pretty much screwed on this one.
Then to top all of this off.. My lovely hubby of mine is Allergic to Latex.
WHAT AM I TO DO......

Iv lost a total of 46lbs so far. but that really is not alot. At least not i my book for but being 3 months out i guess its not bad really.
But what will happen if i get pregnant. Im trying to find another type of condom but not being able to read german, or anything buying them on the economy kinda bites.

Im scared out of my mind. We have been wanting another child since we had out daughter 6 years ago. But my weight was always an issue. Now... well i still want to get pregnant but.. im worried. My doc is no help at all. he thinks i should just tie my tubes and be done. Im 25. Hello....

Anyone with advice please let me know.
Am i crazy to just say screw it leave it up to fate. if i get pregnant enjoy the blessing..... HELP......