Happy Friday,
Well, hubby and I pulled an all nighter talk session and I think I have a handle on the situation. Yes, he is afraid that some other man could sweep me off my feet. The only man in the world that has that chance is Sean Connery and I really don't think he's going to be beating down my door. Even then I just want him to talk to me. ;o) But, more importantly I have become so dependent on him that he's afraid that I won't need him any more. Of course this is totally untrue. I ask him to do things because I'm tired of doing them myself. He's been gone most of our marriage that I want him to be a part now that he's home. Lastly he's afraid of something going wrong and losing me. But, I have done so much research and talked to so many people that I know I don't have to worry except for a freak thing. But, that could happen in our home. I could just as easily die from a slip in the shower as I could on the table. I told him that he would have to take the time off to go to all my appointments with me and wish he could go to the seminar with me but, I'll tell him everything from it. I explained that this decision effects him almost as much as it effects me and he seemed pretty happy about that. I then pulled out the teddy from our wedding night and hung it on the closet door. That's his reward for loving me so much
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