Always try to keep in mind that you can never control what another person is going to say to you. You can only control how you react to it. You can choose to take a positive stance or you can choose to be negative. It's not always easy though...is it? You do not owe anyone an explanation unless you want to give it. If someone gives you a compliment...say thanks and move on. If they continue and get on your nerves...tell them to kiss what's left of your ass! We are going to be more noticable to people due to the dramatic weight loss and transformation. It's human nature to be surprised at the difference. Some people are happy for us...some facinated by us...some jealous of us. Just keep up the good work! Sue
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