Why? Did you have the surgery
I have read this post on several occasions now and feel so upset that someone allowed you to go through with this in the first place.
I am like you at the moment andhavent been able to eat for nearly 2 weeks due to a band adjustment but I am going back on saturday to have some taken out as it is not making me feel well and I am weak now.
What worries me is that before I had my band I had a long session about my mental state and if there was any support for me when I got home. I had my neighbours and sons to help me when I needed it. I think you have now given up and feel depressed and NEED SOME URGENT HELP from a person who understands your situation.
When posts like this come up I think that people start to get worried that if they are waiting for the life changing operation to improve their life these are regular problems? THEY ARE NOT and in the end it will be upto you to start and find a path to happiness and either accept what you have done or go and have it reversed and live the life you had before? May I ask you what made you think that you were ready for such a huge change in your life in the first place????
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