Too hard on yourself
Sugar pea,
You are only a month out, this is VERY common in people to fall into a funk because of hormones, estrogen, testosterone going crazy. Keep reading positive material, surround yourself with positive people, for now. The idea of considering antidepressants right now may be a little premature.
Honestly, I think your expectations are too high for the moment. Yor loss is excellent, you still have another 5 months of honeymoo, during this honeymoon you learn life style changes, from meals to people. The enviroment in which you socialize will change, as well as the people. Do what is best for YOU. For now, relax and hold off on drugs for a month.. unless you really feel like you are a danger to yourself. definitely see a therapist, someone you can vent to, and dont forget yo always have us.
There is a book I highly recommend, Bad Childhood, Good Life By Dr Laura. Its an easy read, and gives great advice on all kinds/types of relationships and emotionally dealing with people in your life. Two thumbs way up from me! I love the book, and re read it when Im feeling blue or need empowerment.
Best wishes, breathe, relax and pamper YOU!
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J.Bridget Fisher aka koi-pea
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