Jacki, what you are going through is very understandable because WLS is more than just wls. It's a process of the mind as well as the body. A lot of it is caused by the fact that fat is melting away and no longer covering you up. It lays you bare, and the skin has to grow back on a healthier you - mind and body.
I have been going through this a lot. Life throws us curves and we are used to dealing with it in the old-time ways. Now, as we change, we find that we don't know how to handle things that we handled before, in ways we were used to.
It's tormenting, I know. But keep in mind that it is a very important part of the process of finding the authentic you. You want to do that. You want to find the authentic you.
Best regards,
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Claire, AKA ClaireBear
4'9.25"
Lap RNY - 4/9/07. Pre-op, 236 lbs - Current: 104 lbs. - Goal: 126 lbs.
CENTURY CLUB: 11/26/07 Wooo Hoooooo!!!
WAY more than HALF of me, 132 lbs., GONE!!!!!
Size 3 in skinny jeans, Petite Small in all else!
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