Welcome! I think you need to make this decision for YOU. You discuss with your surgeon the pro's and con's of both surgeries and YOU make the decision. As far as your hubby not like "skinny" women it might be an insecurity issue. I never thought my husband was insecure but he would kinda sabatoge my surgery offering me junk food, pop etc. We had severe problems before my surgery and at 2 months post op, he left and moved out. I havent been happier
So please do this for you no one else