Renaece

Hello everybody. Don't know where to start. I'm scared and don't know what to do. I was ask by my doctor if I wanted the gastrice bypass and I told her I was scared and didn't want to think about it. Deep down I do need the surgery for so many reasons. The all the bad talks on what can happen, what will happen scares me real bad. I know I have health problems that are onset by my weight. Any help or friendly words would be helpful... I'll be 42 in June and have a beautiful 12 year old daughter that I need to be around for.