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Old 04-28-2008, 06:33 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by pebitpeb View Post
I have to agree and that sometimes a complainer and someone really who is taking away your precious time that you have been so kind to share with her, really needs the direct approach in a kind and gentle way.
If that doesn't work take the extreme direct approach and come right out and tell her that you are there to get yourself in good health and dont have time to be interupted, however if she is serious about taking your suggestions and help that you are there next to her and can do it.

Good luck, and keep having a kind and gentle heart and patience.

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but, she is making huge progress. Her faith is becoming restored. She is becoming a better mother,lover,wife,workout animal. Her and her hubby are going to marriage counseling now(im helping). Things are going great for her.

She is soooo strong she just needs to realize it and let go of her fear. Whenever a strong women lets go of fear they become very powerful. She is already under weight goal and kicking ass on her new target of 135(she is currently 142ish).

for refference she is 5'5
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