I have to agree and that sometimes a complainer and someone really who is taking away your precious time that you have been so kind to share with her, really needs the direct approach in a kind and gentle way.
If that doesn't work take the extreme direct approach and come right out and tell her that you are there to get yourself in good health and dont have time to be interupted, however if she is serious about taking your suggestions and help that you are there next to her and can do it.
Good luck, and keep having a kind and gentle heart and patience.
pebitpeb
Paul
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Paul
Laproscopic Gastric Bypass May 18, 2007, 205kg/(451 lbs)(BMI 71)/post op abdominoplasty(12-14-07 & 01-14-08) post-op hip surgery(2-27-08)currently 4-25-08 85kg(187lbs)(BMI 27) GOAL REACHED  265 lbs gone .
Goal 85kg(187lbs)ACHIEVED GOAL WEIGHT APRIL 25, 2008(11 Months & 6 days after LAPROSCOPIC GASTRIC BYPASS)
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