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My husband is going to have his surgery next month and I am really scared. I am scared that something will happen to him, even though I know that this is his last chance to have a "normal" life. I am also considered medically obese, but have more energy than he does. I am scared about what this means for me after the surgery.

I am trying to see this as a great opportunity for the both of us to get more active and lose weight, since I will try to follow what he does to the best of my ability. I am having a bit of anxiety and, if I am honest with myself, a bit jealous that it will be "easy" for him to lose the weight.

Any suggestions or help would be appreciated.