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Originally Posted by MarkFrost
Right to start off . i researched this as much as i could . but due to having a nerveus breakdown a plate in my jaw from a mugger , my memory slips or i need to ask question i already know the answer to. its called reassurance.
this is a support forum and just becuase you know every thing it doesnt means everyone is the same.
Im sorry to be a bitch when i say stop posting if you cant help matters, people like you are no better then the bullies ive been running from all my life.
I eat 1 bit of ham a i bit of lettice and you jump down my throat instead of trying to help why i was worried.
And for your information many people on this forum have or thought about forcing a dump to see what its like.
it is called learning process how would you cope out on your own if you dumped and didnt know what it was like and it was worse then you thought . if you had tested it you may have taken better care not to get in that position.
now get off the friggin subject of the lettice or next time someone has a problem they wont give the facts down because they will be scared posters like you will jump down their necks.
Yes i mentioned force dumping . that didnt mean i have done it or going to do it today.
But yes if i dont dump within 6 months because i am careful on wha i eat, as i wasnt a persistat face stuffer pre op so i doubt ill be one after. i will force a gentle dump at home where m family are , just incase for some reason im caught outside alone and i dump . i will now what to do how to handle it or it will make me sure to avoid it at all costs
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If you really thought I "jumped down your throat" then I'm sorry but I was just telling you the truth. I may not sugar coat it as much as people around here, but if you had really read what i wrote, it was all constructive criticism. I never mentioned anything about lettuce, just that you need to be careful. And I also never claimed to know everything. But I do know that MANY people on here do know a lot about the surgery and about the aftermath. And I'm sorry you had bad experiences in the past, and I have a pretty crappy memory too, but thats why I wrote a lot of things down. If you really thought I was "bullying" you, then sorry. Just trying to help.