Thank you both for replying..
I do agree about the therapy.. I haven't been going long but I'm excited to go back.. I'm re learning myself in ways that I forgot.. for 12 years I have been a mommy and a wife and for 32 years I have been a daughter.. So when you ask who am I? It's hard for me to give an answer...
but on the brighter note I'm sure I'll be able to answer that question very soon!! and I'm so excited about that!!