Originally Posted by bridgetgirl

so is it your mission in life to be angry at people who do it, or the doctors who perform it? If you are under the impression that this is a COSMETIC procedure, Im assuming you have that impression left by your mother, that indeed she was not at all prepared for this surgery. Oh and by the way 90% of people who have weightloss surgery do not have problems with their liver and kidneys, lets not be dramatic.

It sounds like your mother was sick for some time, and ignored the symptoms and signs because she thought it was all apart of how one would feel after a big operation like hers. Again, it sounds like your mother did not take advantage of the support groups and educational groups that people are urged to become apart of post operatively.

I think your mad at your mom, for living you untimely. Her life was too short. My dad went into liver and kidney failure after having a bone spur removed off his spine. What was supposed to be an overnight event for monitoring, turned into almost 2 weeks of not knowing if he was going to live. Things happen, I am sorry for your lost. But please dont come here and rain on my parade, you need to locate a support group to assist you in your time of grief, not come here acting like a bully! Please go away and grieve with people who know you.