You will hear, "Oh you took the easy way out." This is a pisser of a comment- I respond, " Whats the value of doing something the hard way, anyway?"
Or "Youre not big enough to had or have that surgery." Response, "Well my PCP, me, a Psychologist, Surgeon and Insurance Company seem to disagree with you!"
Your emotions:
Yes you feel like no one can do anything without your help. You feel like the center of everyones universe. You may be having financial woes, and social issues and they seem to be out of control and you just want to crawl into bed and be left alone, or worse DIE. You are feeling the same way MANY of us have felt as well. As a MO person, your fat traps alot of estrogen and testosterone, you usually have high levels of it. With rapid weightloss they are released quickly, causing a huge emotional stir. You may not experience anything different or you may. It may be after your 2nd week or up to 2-3 months post operatively. Warn your loved ones of this possibility and when you feel like choking the life out of a loved one, come here and vent vent vent. Like I have said before, we will take one for the team to keep your family safe from the wrath of your temper and breaking point!
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J.Bridget Fisher aka koi-pea
2/9/04 lap 5'11"
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"People will argue with you that getting what you want in life isn’t something you can learn, if you’re destined to be one of the worlds winners as opposed to one of its perpetual whiners, its because you have been born with the right talents and temperament and have a big dose of self-esteem, ambition, and good judgment." Kate White